thetearingsoundoflovenotes replied to your post: A post about real shit.

I know how it feels to be somewhat unemotional (lol). The best way I can describe my feels is that a lot of relationship crap is ritualistic nonsense, but the real substance lies in having fun & connecting and sort of being a friend rather than a gf
I feel the same way.  Like I can’t even begin to deal with the cutesy stuff that a “normal” relationship requires.  I just want to have fun and hang out, then it gets complicated and I cant have a normal conversation without being called “babe” or having to reassure someone that I’m “their girl”. Shit just gets weird and I get distant.  
  1. iloveyoucharlie said: aw man I feel the same exact way. &been losing sleep explaining all of that in broader detail to her.. turns out I can’t even really do that without there being some chance she takes it personally and reacts..passionately. shit gets so tense, it sux.
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